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Ask Sally

Dear Sally:

My mom says that when I see other kids getting picked on, I can tell a teacher or other adult. But, I don't want to be a tattletale. How do I know when I should tell a teacher?
Luke, New York, fifth grade

Sally

Sally says:

I am glad that you can talk with your mom about bullying. Parents can have lots of helpful ideas. When should you tell?

Here is your 1-2-3 Guide to Not Being a Tattletale.


Ask a grown up for help if:
1. someone is being hurt; or
2. you feel scared; or
3. you can't fix the problem on your own.

If you don't want other kids to know that you told a teacher about bullying, try to talk with the teacher when no one else is around. Also, ask the teacher not to let the other kids know about your conversation.

A View from the Crew:

Carmen:
If you are telling to help or protect someone, that is not tattling.

Chandra:
Bullies keep thinking if you don't tell, they will be protected and can do it again.

Mickey:
Telling is helping.

Pip:
It's important to squeak up...er, speak up!